Knowledge can only take one so far. To be knowledgeable about a certain subject will give you the title of expert. I have been told that I like to argue and should submit to authority and respect their expertise. I ask too many questions, looking for a better way or a better explanation. I threaten their title of “expert”; or do I do this because I am threatened by their “expertise”?
As my life evolves I find myself searching for experience instead of researching for knowledge. I have found the lessons are in every situation – in every moment, if I am open to it. The simple act of sitting down and writing about the word expert, has taught me a lesson on how I relate with some people. I now realize I am fighting a war that is not worth winning.
I do not want to be an expert. I want to approach life with a hunger for experiences and to be on the look out for the lessons that will make me aware of how precious life is. I want to share these experiences and I want to hear about other’s experiences. As we share each other’s stories we gain insight from the listening as well as in the telling – to be both student and teacher. If I could discipline myself to approach each relationship this way – I would not only gain wisdom, but friendship.
The need to be the expert gets in the way of this kind of lifestyle. If one needs to be an expert then someone else must be the inferior. If one is an expert, what else is there to learn? I want my life to be a never-ending lesson and experiences that will fill me with wonder and excitement. I will ask many questions and I will try and fail at many things and at times I will look foolish – but it is a price I am willing to pay – it is probably the cure to my need for perfection.
Already a burden seems to have been lifted. I have nothing to prove.
I am learning how to live – if I become an expert, the learning stops.
2 thoughts on “I am no expert….”
You have actually described the path to becoming a real, not fake, expert. I think we should all pick an area or two of interest, and work to become experts in what interests us. That way, each person has something to contribute. Real expertise doez not require snobism or arrogance.
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Interesting enough life is about you and you about life. Your lessons are to be learned to put together your life…how can it be right or wrong because it is your life that different lessons have come together to form you….and what you are….i have been laughed at when i challenged a friend of mine to learn lessons from the little things….i angered my friend because they actually did not want to learn anymore…when that happens life stops….i don ‘t want life to stop so i continue to learn lessons from the little things…
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